People Going Abroad for Sustenance Suffer From Three Problems
It has been more than thirty years that I am listening to the problems of people. Pains, problems, difficulties, intricacies keep on coming to my ears continuously through speech, phone and eyes through letters and other than that through many personal meetings these problems come in front of me. Till today I have rarely found such people who went abroad. Someone for ten years, someone for forty years and someone’s third or fourth generation. The plenty of people that I have found are such that are suffering from three problems.
First Loss: First loss is of the loss of offspring. The offspring has slipped out of hands. And the way it was thought about the offspring, the way it was earned, the way it was worked hard, everything finished. Either they are living alone. Or such lives in which the offspring have their own paths and the parents have theirs.
Second Loss: The second loss was that the spouses could never develop an understanding among each other. There are only a few percent of the families who are living with love and affection. Rest of the families have broken. Life of the husband is separate; life of the wife is aloof. The husband is living alone and spending his days and nights by doing a job and the wife is alone.
Third Loss: Third loss was of that economic problem the glitter of which took them there. Foreign currency, foreign wealth, foreign lifestyle. But when they learned, it came to the knowledge that either they spent their whole lifetime paying of the debt of the house and reached old age. Or whatever they had earned, they consumed it all. And if they ever come back to their own country some time, people think that they have a lot of money. In these thirty years of experience I have only seen five percent of the people to be wealthy. Other than that it is only an impression and they are living their mundane lives.
I heard From the Elders That Bliss is something?
Readers! Why is it like this? I heard this word from the elders that bliss is something? And this bliss is that division from the skies that is received by the fortunate people. And it is received by every such person who keeps the deeds of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) with his chest, he achieves it a lot. Bliss is a blessing and and endowment that falls from the skies and sprinkles its colors on the land.
Those Who Left Offspring and Wife and Went Abroad! What Happened With Them?
I asked everyone who met me many times, you earn so much where does it go? And you work so hard, wife, offspring, themselves, everyone in the family is working, they are doing hard work, they are doing laborious jobs and nothing is earned. I have three points that I have presented. Meaning that offspring, marital life and economic problems. Please pay attention to recognize these problems. If you look you will realize that perhaps what I have said is close to reality. Before today you had paid a lot of attention, but pay a bit more attention please. How many percent of people are those who left behind their spouses and what happened about them? This is a question mark, the answer of which I leave unto you! The money they spent, how much of that was spared? How much was spent properly? And how much was wasted? Behavior of the offspring, character and upbringing, what happened about them? The wife is living the life of a widow while the husband is alive, what was the end? Or those families who were living together abroad, what happened about their generations?
We Have Seen Blessing, Peace and Progress of Generation in Our Own Country!
Readers! How great is my country. There are millions of deficiencies and thousands of mistakes in it, but I have seen bliss in my country, peace in my country, and if generations are paid attention to, I have seen the flight and progress of generations here as well. And I have seen that parents live with the generations as well. There is a verse of the holy Quran [وبنین شھودا] (Mudassir 13), please drown in its meaning some time, its meaning is only that the offspring that will be useful in old age and be a companion then.
It is a story of in front of my eyes that the driver was 97 years old and was on the mercy of the driver. There was a bungalow of almost 5 kanals. One son was in Canada and one was in England. So much so that the sons retired from their jobs. And the father died in the age of 97 years but with the driver. Do we want so much difference between ourselves and our generations. That we can see our generations some time? And then the generations become younger by living a purposeless life? And we become old and leave this world?
Come! Let’s Promise That We Give Time, Love and Affection to Generations
Come! Let’s promise that we give time to our generations. We give time full of love and affection to our generations. So at this time keep the button of blood pressure in your hand. Because the casual nature of children and the unruliness of the youth may as well make you angry. With tolerance, you have to give time to your generations and then you have to take it as well. And you should live in your country. Even if you get a little amount, you find dry bread; there is no harm in it. Work hard. The ground of hard work is very
